Words can be very powerful tools. Proverbs 18:21 says that the power of life and death are in the tongue. So it's obvious that God points out how strong the use of words can be. They can be a tool that's used for destruction, but also one used in construction. Either way you look at it, your words should always been chosen with care. We should most definitely watch the things we say around other people. Are we saying things for a cheap laugh, or are we saying things that are from the heart? Do you see yourself going out into the world to help others, or tearing other people down everywhere you go?
We need to think before we speak because there may be a person out there that is more sensitive and can take something that you say wrong and it can offend them. Be on your guard all the time. We must remember that we are here for one purpose: to honor God and build up His kingdom. If we aren't ever watching the things that we say and we are throwing out cuss words and breaking people's spirits, then are we really being a good example for those looking for God? They see us as witnesses, and when they see even those that call themselves "Christians" using poor language then they will say, 'Huh I guess that Christians are all hypocrites.' We have to be good examples. If we aren't, then nobody will take God seriously.
I think that we should set out on the quest to look for those in need of God or those who are struggling with something in their lives. We should look for them and set out to help them. We need to really care about helping them and the only way to do it is by praying and asking God for help. We can't do anything by ourselves. We don't know their exact situation, or what they are going through. However, if we pray and we ask God for wisdom and discernment on their problem, then He will help us to help them. Maybe they need a helping hand in a problem. Maybe a tutor in a class. What if they just need someone to talk to? Someone that won't judge them. This is what God calls us to do. We need to honor what He asks us, and do it. He doesn't want unholy things to exit our mouths. One word can destroy someone's self esteem. One word can bring it back. It's up to you which word you'll use.
Love God's people enough to stop and help.
Until next time,